59 questions · 15 minutes · Both partners

You think you agree on the rules of your marriage. You don't.

The fights that end marriages aren't about big betrayals. They're about the small things you never said out loud. How much can you spend? Who handles what? What happens when your in-laws show up?

59 questions. Both of you answer on your phone. You see the truth side by side. Then you write the rules together.

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35,000+
Clinical Hours
14
Areas Covered
AI
Mediation Built In
A boundary isn't a wall. It's a line both people agreed to respect.Dr. Johnathan Hines · 35,000+ Clinical Hours
How It Works

Four steps. Fifteen minutes. One agreement you both signed.

No therapist. No waiting room. Two people, two phones, and the courage to tell the truth.

1
Get Your Codes
Private link sent to both phones. Nobody sees each other's answers.
2
Answer Honestly
59 real questions about money, family, trust, and how you actually live.
3
See the Truth
Every answer compared side by side. Where you match. Where you don't.
4
Build Your Rules
AI helps mediate every disagreement. You both sign a written agreement.
What You'll Be Asked

Real questions about the things relationships actually break over.

Not feelings. Not opinions. Concrete choices about money, trust, family, and how you live together.

Money & Finances
How much can either of you spend without asking the other?
$25 or less — every purchase gets a conversation
$50 — check in on anything above
$100 — only big purchases need a heads up
$250+ — full freedom on spending
Trust & Accountability
Should your partner have your phone password?
Yes, full access, nothing to hide
Yes, but only if they ask
We each have our own phone privacy
Never — that's a personal boundary
Family & In-Laws
Can your in-laws show up unannounced?
Never. Always call first, we confirm, then come.
A heads-up text is fine
Family is always welcome. Open door.
My parents are different from your parents
Intimacy & Connection
How often should you have a dedicated date night?
Every week, non-negotiable
Twice a month is realistic
When we can, no pressure
We don't need a schedule for connection
Your Results

No more guessing where you stand.

Every answer compared. Green means you agree. Yellow means you're close. Red means you need to talk.

Sample Comparison
Here's what real results look like
Phone passwords?
Him: Full accessHer: Full access
Match
Spending limit?
Him: $100Her: $50
Close
In-laws dropping by?
Him: AnytimeHer: Call first
Mismatch
Date night?
Him: WeeklyHer: Weekly
Match
Who handles finances?
Him: BothHer: Husband
Mismatch
AI-Guided Mediation
Every disagreement gets a mediator.
For every mismatch, AI reads both answers, explains the perspective behind each one, and writes a specific compromise you can both live with.
Reads Both Sides
Understands what each person actually means, not just what they checked.
Writes a Fair Rule
A specific, balanced boundary you can both agree to. Not vague. Not one-sided.
Answers Questions
Ask follow-ups about your specific situation. Real guidance, not generic advice.
14 Areas Covered

59 questions across everything that matters.

Every area where couples fall apart. Concrete choices, not vague feelings.

💰
Finances
7
💬
Communication
6
📱
Phones
5
❤️
Intimacy
5
👶
Parenting
7
👨‍👩‍👧
Family
7
🏠
Household
5
🏥
Health
6
⚖️
Values
5
💼
Career
5
🤝
Friends
4
🔓
Trust
5
🎯
Vision
4
🧠
Mental Load
5
Pricing

Two sessions of counseling. A lifetime of clarity.

Most couples spend months in sessions trying to surface what this reveals in 15 minutes.

All Inclusive
$349
One-time payment · Both partners · Everything below
  • 59-question assessment for both partners
  • Side-by-side comparison of every answer
  • AI-guided mediation for every disagreement
  • Written Boundary Agreement with 59 rules
  • Non-negotiable breakdown for each partner
  • Coaching prompts for every mismatch
  • Private links sent to both phones
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Secure payment via Stripe · Results available for 69 days
35,000+
Clinical Hours
59
Questions
15 min
Per Person
14
Areas Covered
Common Questions

Before you ask.

Can my partner see my answers while I'm taking it?
No. Your answers are completely private until both of you finish. Then results appear side by side. The honesty is what makes this work.
Do we take it at the same time?
You don't have to. Each of you gets a private link and code. Take it whenever works. Results unlock when the second person finishes.
What if we disagree on a lot of things?
That's the whole point. Most couples discover 15 to 25 mismatches. That's normal. The AI mediator helps you work through each one and find a rule you can both honor.
What is the AI mediator?
For every question where you answered differently, the AI explains why you might disagree, translates the heart behind each answer, and writes a specific compromise. You can ask follow-up questions about your specific situation.
Is this a replacement for counseling?
No. This is a tool that shows you exactly where your boundaries are. Many couples use it before their first session. Some find they can resolve most things on their own with the written agreement.
Who created this?
Dr. Johnathan Hines, a coach with a Doctorate in Counseling and over 35,000 clinical hours. Every question comes from real patterns observed across thousands of sessions.
How long do results last?
Your results and written agreement are available for 69 days. We recommend printing your signed agreement and reviewing it together on the 1st of every month.

Stop assuming. Start agreeing.

15 minutes. Two phones. One written agreement.

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